How the Parents Forever Course Makes a Difference
When families experience major transitions, especially separation, divorce, or custody disputes, parents face not only legal and logistical challenges but also emotional ones. These changes affect children most deeply, and courts across the country have recognized the importance of providing parents with tools to support their children through these experiences. While the impact on children is often the primary focus, it’s equally important to recognize that parents themselves need support during this transition. Navigating new routines, legal processes, and changing family dynamics can place significant stress on adults who are trying to hold everything together. One widely used resource in both North Dakota and Minnesota is the Parents Forever program, a court-approved educational course designed to help parents navigate family changes in a healthier, more informed way.
What Is Parents Forever?
Parents Forever is an educational course developed to help parents understand the impact of family transitions on children and learn skills to support their well-being. The program is commonly used in district court family matters as part of custody, divorce, or parenting-time proceedings. At its core, Parents Forever teaches parents how to:
- Maintain the parent-child relationship during and after significant changes;
- Reduce conflict and communicate more effectively with the other parent;
- Prioritize children’s emotional and developmental needs; and
- Make informed decisions that lead to healthier long-term outcomes.
The curriculum is research-based and designed to give parents practical strategies they can use immediately.
When and Why Courts Require the Class
While some parents choose to take the class voluntarily, many complete it because it is required by a court order. In Minnesota, this requirement is set by Minnesota Statutes § 518.157, which automatically mandates a parenting educational course in all cases involving children. North Dakota, however, does not automatically require such a course unless it is specifically ordered by the judge. Even so, most judges in North Dakota include it in their initial scheduling order because they recognize how beneficial the class is for both parents and children. Notably, each judicial district maintains its own list of approved courses, but one of the most widely accepted and commonly used programs in both states is Parents Forever.
Benefits of Completing the Program
Even for parents who take the course because “the court says so,” the benefits of the Parents Forever program often go far beyond compliance. Some of the most common advantages include:
- Clearer Understanding of Children’s Needs: Family transitions can be confusing and stressful for children. The class helps parents see changes from their child’s perspective and provides guidance on how to reduce emotional strain.
- Better Communication With the Other Parent: One of the biggest challenges divorcing or separated parents face is communication. Parents Forever offers proven strategies for managing conflict, setting boundaries, and keeping conversations productive.
- Reduced Stress During the Legal Process: Navigating the court system can feel overwhelming. This course helps parents understand how their choices, reactions, and co-parenting style can affect their case and their children.
- Tools for Long-Term Co-Parenting Success: Parenting does not end at the courthouse steps. The program gives parents long-lasting skills that support healthier co-parenting relationships for years to come.
- Improved Environment for Children: Research consistently shows that children fare best when parents minimize conflict, communicate respectfully, and provide safe, stable environments. Parents Forever is designed to support exactly that.
What to Expect During the Course
Parents complete the course individually, meaning they are not required to attend the same session as the other parent, even if both have been ordered to participate. Depending on your county or court requirements, Parents Forever can be taken in several formats:
- In person
- Live online (via Zoom)
- Self-paced online
Each format covers the same core material, though structure and level of interaction may vary. Most versions of the class take 4 to 8 hours to complete. After finishing the program, parents then receive a certificate of completion, which must be filed with the court to show that they have met the requirement.
Cost Options for Parents
The cost of the Parents Forever program can vary based on the provider and format. Fortunately, there are multiple options available to ensure the class is accessible to everyone.
- Self-Paced Online Course: his is a 4-hour online course offered through MSUM that parents can complete all at once or spread out over several weeks, depending on the individual’s schedule. The course fee is $69, and registration can be completed online or by contacting the Parents Forever team at 612-626-3958 or by email at parentsforever@ umn.edu. Parents filing in North Dakota may also take this course, even though it is provided through MSUM
- Better Communication With the Other Parent: For parents who prefer added guidance and realtime interaction, NDSU offers both live online and in-person options. The live online course is conducted via Zoom, takes approximately 4 hours to complete, and costs $55.00. Participants will need a reliable device with a camera, internet connection, and basic familiarity with Zoom. The inperson class is also $55.00 and runs for 4 hours. Depending on NDSU’s schedule, the in-person course may be offered as a single 4-hour session or divided into multiple shorter sessions over one or more days. They typically try to offer this course at least once a month.
In some situations, parents who cannot afford the course may request a fee waiver or reduced fee. Availability depends on the provider and the court’s policies, but many programs offer sliding-scale pricing or financial assistance to ensure that cost does not prevent anyone from completing the required education. Parents should contact the course provider or consult the court for more information on eligibility.
Why It Matters for Our Community
Families in transition often face heightened stress, uncertainty, and emotional strain. Programs like Parents Forever play a vital role in helping families rebuild healthy routines, reduce conflict, and give children the stability they need to thrive. For our community, this means:
- Stronger, more resilient families;
- Reduced court conflict and repeat litigation;
- Children who are better equipped to manage life changes; and
- Parents who feel supported rather than overwhelmed.
Whether required by a court order or taken voluntarily, the Parents Forever Course is a valuable resource that empowers parents to make positive, lasting changes.
The Importance of Taking the Next Step
Navigating a family is never easy, but with the right tools and knowledge, parents can ensure their children continue to feel safe, supported, and loved. The Parents Forever program exists to guide parents through this process with understanding, practical skills, and compassion.
If you or someone you know is navigating complex family dynamics, separation, divorce, or custody, consider reaching out to a family law attorney at SW&L Attorneys.
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