Q: Tell us about yourself.
A: Hello, my name is Siham—meaning “arrow” in Arabic. I was born in Amediye, Kurdistan, a beautiful mountain town known for its waterfalls and the world’s best tahini, which has been made there for over 500 years. Kurdistan, located between Turkey and Iraq, is a land rich in culture and resources but often caught in conflict.
My story begins in the midst of turmoil. When I was just six months old, my family fled into the mountains to escape Saddam Hussein’s attacks on the Kurdish people. My father worked with UNICEF, and in 1996, we were granted asylum in the United States due to his work with U.S. government-affiliated organizations. We spent six months in Guam, where we built a close-knit Kurdish community before resettling in Fargo-Moorhead in 1997.
Adjusting to life in the U.S. was challenging. I had to learn a new language, navigate an unfamiliar culture, and help my family with everything from translating documents to finding employment. As the eldest of seven children, I became my family’s primary support system. Despite these obstacles, I excelled academically and was the first in my family to graduate from high school. In 2009, I attended Concordia College as a first-generation student. It was not an easy journey—resources for students like me were scarce, and some instructors were unsupportive of my background. However, I was determined to succeed. Over the years, I have gained experience in healthcare, education, and social services. I now work at Creating Community Consulting, where I develop community solutions and collaborations. Outside of my work, I continue to help community members navigate housing, employment, and education opportunities.
Today, I serve as Chair of the Moorhead Human Rights Commission, Vice Chair of the New American Consortium, a trustee of the Awesome Foundation, and a board member for the University of Minnesota Extension. I am also actively involved in efforts to support low-income housing in our region. My journey has been filled with challenges, but I am proud to be a resilient immigrant who values both my Kurdish heritage and my U.S. citizenship.
Q: Who are some people who have been influential in your journey?
A: My family has been my greatest inspiration, particularly my mother, father, grandparents, and siblings.
My grandmother taught me the meaning of generosity and community. Her home was always open, filled with fresh bread from her tandoori oven and laughter, no matter the hardships her family endured. My father, having survived dictatorship and war, showed me the strength of perseverance. He worked tirelessly to provide for us, despite the struggles he faced. My mother, who only had an education up to fourth grade, raised seven children while working and ensuring we always had a home-cooked meal.
I am also deeply inspired by Kurdish women who embody the slogan Jin, Jiyan, Azadi (Women, Life, Freedom). Their resilience and courage motivate me to keep pushing forward, both for myself and for my community.
Q: What drives you?
A: People and community. Every day, I strive to connect individuals with resources that empower them. Whether it’s through my work, advocacy, or mentorship, I believe that when we uplift others, we all rise together.
Q: What are some important life lessons you have learned?
A: I’ve learned that humility, community, and persistence are essential. Sharing resources and kindness doesn’t take away from you—it often leads to unexpected opportunities and deeper connections.
I’ve also learned that everyone grows at their own pace. It’s important to give people time and space to develop while offering support along the way. Above all, adaptability and critical thinking are crucial skills that have helped me navigate life’s challenges.
Q: Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
A: In 10 years, I hope to be traveling more, creating spaces where people feel empowered, and continuing to advocate for positive change.
I want to build something meaningful—whether it’s a business, a nonprofit, or a program that directly benefits the community. My goal is to leave a lasting impact, not for validation, but to prove that a child of war, born with nothing but the love of their people, can build a future full of hope and opportunity.
Q: What are you hoping to gain from the United Way 35 Under 35 Women’s Leadership Program?
A: I hope to build my confidence and prove to my younger self that she belongs in professional spaces. I also look forward to connecting with other ambitious women who will inspire and challenge me to grow.
Beyond personal growth, I want to use this experience to open doors for other ambitious individuals, particularly women from underrepresented backgrounds. If I can learn how to better empower others, this program will have been a success.
